september note

When Andrew visited his brother today, Michael was awake. The room was darkened. Michael was pushing food around. He doesn't have much appetite and has not been successful keeping food down; this has been going on for about a week.

He did enjoy listening to a family story.

Michael is stoic and always tells the nurses only one thing "I'm fine." That's his way....

Michael is surrounded by caring people in a peaceful, soothing environment. He knows that he has many friends. All of you and all the rest, who've shown that he is important to them. Thank you and please keep Michael in your thoughts.

- from a note from Marian

a new place for Michael - Angela Hospice

Today, Michael moved to a smaller hospice in Michigan, highly recommended by the Gratch family and friends in the area. The name is Angela Hospice Home Care, and the website is http://www.angelahospice.org/

Michael's new address is:
c/o
Angela Hospice Home Care
14100 Newburgh Road
Livonia, Michigan 48154-5010
TEL: 734.464.7810 | Toll Free: 866.464.7810
Fax: 734.464.6930

It will be much easier to reach Michael by phone, as he has a direct line. Please email Lucy if you'd like to have it - am not sure if he wants it posted on the blog....

It promises to be a more peaceful environment, and lots of supportive people. Shaunna was visiting this weekend and able to help. Andrew and Marian had put Michael's name on the hospice waiting list at the recommendation of his doctors, and so with assistance from family and friends, Michael is resting in his new bed. Cards and letters are welcome; you may phone the hospice for visiting hours.

michael's room decorating - update from marian

Michael's room decorating - for more color and a view - WAP John put up the green rocky coast picture directly over Michael's head on the ceiling; now McM can go to sleep dreaming of Ireland...

He also hung the special quilt Michael's friends and fans from NaGaeil and IAHC created for him - due to wall space issues only half can be visible at any one time, so Andy and I will rotate regularly. We have also found Michael's iPod, which he had requested. So his environment is steadily becoming more comfortable for him. Andy visited today, and Michael's mood is good and he reports he is feeling "OK, considering."

Thank you for your donations, which make the hospice care possible and comfortable.

more art to give a quiet room a vista, a view

dark and mystical clouds over green hills: a fresh visual for M

WAP John visited McM yesterday and found some hi-res images to decorate the space - here's a JPG of mystical clouds that he chose

visiting hours for Michael

Marian & Andrew visited Michael yesterday - as did high school friend WAP John - and pass along the news that he would like to have short visits with friends. Visiting hours are 8am-9pm, at the
West Bloomfield Care Center,
6445 West Maple
West Bloomfield, MI 78322

Michael enjoys going to the sitting room or would like walks around the campus using the wheelchair.

a traditional Gaelic blessing

Deep Peace

Deep peace of the running wave to you
Deep peace of the flowing air to you
Deep peace of the quiet earth to you
Deep peace of the shining stars to you
Deep peace of the gentle night to you
Moon and stars pour their healing light on you

Deep peace deep peace
Deep peace of the sleeping stones to you
Deep peace of the wandering wind to you

Deep peace of the flock of stars to you

Deep peace deep peace
Deep peace of the eastern wind to you

Deep peace of the western wind to you

Deep peace of the northern wind to you
Blue wind of the south to you
Pure red of the whirling flame to you
Pure white of the silver moon to you
Pure green of the emerald grass to you
Deep peace deep peace

Deep peace of the running wave to you
Deep peace of the flowing air to you
Deep peace of the quiet earth to you
Deep peace of the shining stars to you
Deep peace of the gentle night to you
Moon and stars pour their healing light on you

Deep Peace to you

With love to Michael, from Joseph Jacobs, a Buddhist counselor in San Francisco, and friends